Are you that Game Changer, Deep Thinker or System Changer?
Do you feel the call for personal and social transformation?
Do you think something fundamentally new can be born from our outdated systems that are slowly becoming stuck? Did you do your shadow work too?
And you still can’t get there from here?
Don’t worry, you’re not alone. What might be missing in your repertoire of the modern magician or wounded healer is the circle. The use of the collective free tool that is called Circle Wisdom, as old as humanity, to help boost our collective rebirth.
This is how circle wisdom, a free human tech, is crucial for our paradigm shift
Infinite game versus zero-sum games
Did you already figure out your role in humanity’s greatest transition in millions of years?
For me, this is meeting each other in groups, circles and communities. All to contribute to the ‘Infinite Game’; a world based on the idea that it is more important that everyone can play indefinitely than to win. The latter is called a zero-sum game and we’re pretty much trapped in there as humanity. This game is pushing us slowly but surely to the abyss of our civilization. And 6th extinction event.
At the same time, this process functions as a huge wake-up call, it helps us recognize the destructive systems, myths and beliefs that lie beneath our culture, science and narratives. They seem to become less and less ‘true’.
One major story is that we are somehow separated from nature. The other biggie is that we can understand and control everything through abstraction and deduction.
This has led to a mechanistic worldview where technocratic control and increasing exponential tech seem the only way out of our meta-crises. This is a misconception and may be humanity's biggest failure.
This WEF view will extinct us only faster unless we start to embrace the following two things.
Our collective wound at the base of everything
As a reaction to our pending civilization collapse, movements rise to co-create a new world from a higher love frequency and the myth of abundance, instead of the current paradigm of constant survival from yet another crisis all coming from an underlying belief in lack, and that lack is real.
Sometimes I feel the deeper collective wound underlying all of our struggle is our banishment from Eden.
From that primal abandonment wound, we’ve turned against nature, against our mother and thus ultimately against ourselves. A battle we’ll never win and is leading towards our destruction.
In order not to feel that huge pain, we are losing ourselves in consumer addictions, embracing technology as our saviour in a culture of pain avoidance.
The result is that everything feels increasingly less and less real.
We’re constantly a victim of everything, and our bodies become weaker and sicker. We are also becoming increasingly easy to divide and control by an increasingly smaller group of ‘rulers’.
The healing starts there, first individually. I call it The Great Reunion, a main theme in my own life.
The Great Reunion
I was rejected by my mother right after my birth and was addicted for 25 years. Basically to numb the bigger-than-life pain from being rejected out of the womb straight into an unsafe world.
I know better than anyone that the greatest healing lies in embracing that pain. How impossible that may seem. My soul deepdive took me five years, only to let go of the fear of death and rebirth.
I wen’t times and times again through the birth canal, through the pain of the rejection, into owning more and more of my life.
We are now collectively in a night of the soul, the death canal that is at the same time our birth canal. If we let go of our collective fear, we’ll all come out of this alive. A new cultural and also spiritual rebirth awaits us on the other side.
What’s on the other side?
As I tune into that new reality I see a great reunion with nature, through regenerative technologies such as permaculture, the revival of enormous bio-diversity, the introduction of free energy devices, and living from a greater collective consciousness.
Finally, we will move beyond this feeling of being trapped on our small islands, surviving in a ‘hostile’ environment, guided by fear in a system of competition and constant lack of time, money and real connection.
We’ll see that was all an illusion that we fed with our fear.
Instead of staying in constant survival and fear in the face of never-ending crises, we managed to finally embrace and realize the deep desire to live in unity with our source, each other and Mother Earth.
We started to embrace who we really are. Amazing creatures that only need meaningful connection and embrace nature again to thrive.
Sounds great, but what can we do now to move in that direction?
The hijack of the old system
Tools like authentic communication, circle sharing, and radical transparency can be used to guide us into the new paradigm.
I have been in several of these ‘new earth’ or ‘make the world a better place’ organizations in recent years. I have felt and shared the initial high vibe spark of this collective consciousness coming from the deep desire to live from creation and flow. To create conditions for emergence to happen, moving away from our abstract right brain linear thinking.
But the old collective field is still very strong and can and will hijack those beautiful pure intentions. Then the inevitable setback occurs.
More than once I have seen the very same groups fall back into the traps of our 3D world; the ‘rivalrous games’, the old competition for not enough money with everybody else. Jealousy and envy arise, as well as the well-known ‘spiritual righteousness’ trap. Usually, the conclusion is that ‘they haven’t figured it out yet’, or ‘ they’ve only started to look at their shadows and blind spots, so we’re light-years ahead’.
Through the cracks of declining trust, increasing insecurity and competition over leadership and resources, there is a relapse into gossip which is essentially third-party talk to bring the other down. A result is energy leaks or outright rivalry and unspoken tensions and conflicts. The trust breaks and the group and its original intention disintegrates.
Where can we find a solution? How do we get there from here without being hijacked?
Human Technology that will change everything — a possible solution
In my opinion, the solution can be found by first starting small and decentralized.
By creating enough ‘local’ or even underground resilience, awareness and immunity in small circles. They can ultimately be scaled up to a larger whole, supported by the environment. I don’t know yet how this scaling will happen. One possibility is just more and more people join in these circles to create a stronger and stronger healing morphologic field and quantum leaps to the rest.
I know, doesn’t sound really scientific, but it might be a puzzle piece of the new human science we’ll embrace.
Agreements
In addition, clear and transparent agreements are needed about values and ways of communicating that everyone endorses. This structure creates a safe space in which we indeed learn to deal with our shadows, blind spots, triggers and judgments. This provides emotional hygiene.
The truth is this is much harder said than done.
To facilitate these types of circles, the Heart IQ(™) modality is the perfect way. It allows for deeper transformation, creating a strong container and utilizing the amplified field present in each circle.
This circle wisdom is channelled, focused and used to hold space and direct the possible transformations in these groups.
This is one of the most powerful human technologies available for individual and collective healing, and it’s completely free!
Innovation happens at the edge
I see a future where we will increasingly come together in circles, bringing with us this deeper desire and pure intention to transform ourselves, to embrace our gifts and higher purposes.
These circles and small groups close to the edge of society will bring real social, cultural and economic innovation to our new earth. The personal transformation of all members in these groups is crucial for this, as is good facilitation.
I have been with Heart IQ for five years, I have also facilitated men’s circles in Ibiza for five years, and back in the Netherlands I now want to further integrate this knowledge and skills. In this way, I want to make myself of service in our world that is undergoing strong change. As a writer, speaker and group facilitator.
What is your deepest calling to be part of this amazing rebirth? It might be just the very reason you’ve been born in this decisive timeframe.
Lucien Lecarme
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